Wearing lingerie can do a lot for a relationship, but it’s no good on the floor!
We often hear men at parties comment positively about the lingerie and what their partner would look like in it, but when actually buying it, we also hear the familiar echo ‘but it’s not on that long’ or even ‘it spends more time on the floor’ and a purchase is not made.
LINGERIE DOES NOT BELONG ON THE FLOOR!
To keep your beautiful lingerie off the floor, you need to train your man. Yes! If you want to wear it, then dont let him toss it on the floor!
Men are visual, they admire beauty in many forms, and that includes you in sexy lingerie. Men also like how it feels and the unwrapping of the ‘gift’ to get to what’s beneath, but because lingerie is a turn on, they may become impatient and dont spend enough time ‘appreciating’ the lingerie, or the time you have taken to sexy yourself for them.
YOU + LINGERIE = VERY SEXY AND HE WANTS TO RAVISH YOU FASTER!
Take impatience as a compliment, he is turned on, why wouldn’t he rush to please you!
It’s up to you to teach him about lingerie and how it’s not just for him, but you like wearing it as well, so here is a few tips to help your lingerie stay on and enhance your intimacy, rather than it crumpled on the floor after only minutes of being shown off.
- Tell him you like wearing it and want to leave it on! He isn’t a mind reader, and there is a chance he thinks you’re wearing it for him and in his excitement he forgets it makes you feel sexy to. So open your mouth and whisper in his ear if he tries to take it off too fast, tell him you want to leave it on longer because you feel sexy in it too.
- Guide him on how to slowly undress you and appreciate the time you took to dress for him. He may not think of slowly slipping a strap of your shoulder while kissing down your neck. If he has not had a lot of experience with lingerie, he will need some guidance on how to make you feel sexy slowly and building your excitement as well.
- If you want to be naughty while wearing lingerie, explain to him the ‘naughtiness’ of leaving it on during sex and how he can ‘work around’ the lingerie. Depending on the style of the lingerie, he may not know how to access you and think that just removing the lingerie makes it easier for him to please you. If there is buttons, or hooks, zips or other items, it can be daunting and to avoid him fumbling and getting frustrated, if it’s just off and on the floor, he has easier access to you. Teach and guide him on how to work for it and enjoy the process and how it can feel naughty or sexier if all or part of it is still left on, or left longer.
- Use lingerie as a tease, put it on before you’re near the bedroom. Try wearing your lingerie while watching tv and make him wait and ‘enjoy the view’ a bit longer. While most men are ‘ready at the drop of a hat’ they still deserve to be teased and enticed and enjoy the anticipation of what’s ahead.
Whatever you do, always remember he wants to please you as much as he wants to admire you. Take the time to teach him what you want or how you want him to appreciate you in lingerie and he will be more than happy to enjoy lingerie more.
Men are not taught how to please a woman. While the actual act of sex is primal, everything else they learn, and often it’s what they see in porn, or a brief skimming conversation. Don’t take for granted that he knows what you want, but you can guarantee he wants to please you more than you think, so help him out and tell him what and how he can do that. Tell him how you feel and want him to act when you are in lingerie and STOP LINGERIE LIVING ON THE FLOOR!
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